Pregnant at 15 – how Amy found happiness for her daughter

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Pflegefamilie: 990 junge Hamburger wachsen bei Pflegeeltern auf

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Amy: „Ich hatte halt noch nicht so das Muttergefühl“

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Erst mal in Bereitschaftspflege

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„Ich habe kein Recht auf Vorurteile“

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Pflegeeltern: Das sind die Rahmenbedingungen

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