Family: how to prepare children for young siblings

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How to prepare children for younger siblings


Frauke Ludwig, herself a mother of two daughters, runs the company “Einfach Eltern” and offers courses for mothers and fathers.

Photo: THORSTEN AHLF / FUNKE PHOTO SERVICES

Frauke Ludwig holds courses for families expecting children. Because the world is not always ideal after birth.

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Family: Frauke Ludwig runs a course for siblings

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Kinder sollten auf Situation vorbereitet werden

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Manche Kinder ziehen sich zurück

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